Wednesday, November 19, 2008

STAY IN YOUR LANE

hi :)
it's getting a little late, and i just drove 6 hours to my parents house for a birthday/early thanksgiving weekend cause i will be with my other family on the actually holiday...(complete with my favorite 2 year old buddy. :) )...so i'm gonna try to type fast but not miss anything. a few weeks ago i was out nannying for this person and i was so blessed to be able to sit in on a devotion by this person. i only say that because i want to give credit where credit is due, and the below thoughts and ideas are mostly his (with a few words of my own...and i do mean FEW)...and I want to point you to the rightful owner of them should they help you too, then you will know who to thank God for. :) ya'll, i can't tell you how many times A DAY i think about this devotion and how much it has helped me to stay on track and begin to weed out the nonsense in my life that is not from the Lord.
i'm sleepy so i'm just going to jump right in :) ....

hebrews 12:1 "therefore since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us."

we are all in the "race" of life. imagine we are all on a track, and each person has his/her own lane. each lane is specifically marked with boundary lines so that you know the path that your specific lane takes as the road curves and changes. the person to the right of your lane and the person to your left are each in the race with you, as are the others on either side of them, etc. you have one focus, one goal: run the race, in your lane, learning and doing your specific purpose that is unique and specifically designed for you. that lane was made for YOU, and YOU for the purpose in it. when you begin to have feelings of jealousy, envy, coveting, INSECURITIES of any kind, you have crossed over into someone else's lane. you are trying to do the purpose specifically designed for SOMEONE ELSE. STAY IN YOUR LANE. when you cross over into someone else's lane, not only do you attempt a purpose that was NOT designed for you, but you also take your focus off the task that has been gifted specifically to YOU. and if YOU aren't running the race in your lane (because you're trying to be in someone else's), there is NO ONE ELSE to run in your lane for you, so YOUR purpose and design isn't being fulfilled and completed, because you're waisting time trying to be someone else. STAY IN YOUR LANE. allow God to be the one to show you your pace, and how to deal with obstacles (be they distractions, literally something blocking your way, or a pot hole that catches you off guard) in the road when they appear. when we all stay in our respective lanes, we create a bigger picture of God's purpose and plan and how it is designed to work together. when we don't, we are trying to recreate a plan that we don't have the blueprints for.

GIRLS. S.T.A.Y. I.N. Y.O.U.R L.A.N.E God made you beautiful. smart. valuable. lovable. special. unique. holy to Him. we are the WORST at stepping into each others lanes/lives and being catty (sp?), jealous, gossip-y (yes i made that word up), backstabbers to each other when really our actions stem from our own insecurities or cracks in our knowledge of the truth, who God is to us and what that means about our own worth. (more about that in another post.) and not to mention the horrible example we become to our teenagers about how to be solid women of faith and the word when we succumb to any one of the above.
so let's ENCOURAGE instead of laugh at. SUPPORT instead of tear down. cheer each other on instead of hoping the other one falls so we don't feel so bad about our own mistakes.

my best friend and i have started a new habit of asking each other "are you staying in your lane?" i can't tell you what a world of difference this illustration has meant to me. maybe some of you visual learners like myself will benefit from it as well. i hope you are blessed and encouraged today, and homegirl don't forget....


STAY IN YOUR LANE.

7 comments:

Melissa said...

Great job Abby! i am so proud of you and these last couple months! Keep it up and happy belated Birthday!!

Profbaugh said...

Abby,

I love this post. I've used the phrase "stay in your own lane" for the past year after I attended the taping of "Tapping the Power Within (updated vesrion)" by Iyanla Vanzant. Iyanla used the phrase during the taping and ever since it's stuck!! It's now a common phrase for me, my family, and friends. So thanks for the added perspective in this post. I'm doing my best to heed the advice and simply "stay in my own lane," which can be challenging for a mom of three teens!! I guess that's where prayer comes in, huh?

Much love,
~Cheryl

Fran said...

Girl...I can barely take my lane these days much less someone elses!!! Ha!!! but, seriously, this should and can be a daily "deal" that we make. SHOULD MAKE. We can all cross over lanes easily....especially when mine is hard and I don't like my lane. so....it goes both ways. Hmmmmm...

Love you girl!!! You are a bright light and you bless me!!!
hugs,
Fran

Jennifer said...

Beautifully put, Abby! It's so easy to mind other people's business (especially when my own business needs working on).

I also love your "about me" segment.

http://jennifer-asag.blogspot.com/

ocean mommy said...

I love this post Abby!

In fact, my 10 year old and I have been having conversations about this sort of thing a LOT lately. I think I'm going to have her read this in the morning...

Hugs!
steph.

Dionna said...

Love it.

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